How to Live is 27 contradictory philosophies presented with equal conviction. Be independent. Depend on others. Think super-long-term. Live in the moment. Seek pleasure. Serve others. Do nothing. Change the world.

You'll find yourself nodding along to one chapter, then nodding just as vigorously at its opposite. That whiplash is the point. Sivers isn't trying to reconcile these approaches—he's showing that they're all simultaneously true, depending on the season, the question, the day.

The book works surprisingly wells as a personality test. Which contradictions attract you? Which ones make you uncomfortable? Your reactions map something real.

I'm drawn to: Commit. Think super-long-term. Make memories. Master something. Value only what has endured. Learn. Live for others. Create. Make change.

Hard pass: Let randomness rule. Be a famous pioneer. Don't die.

The mixed category tells me more: I'm genuinely conflicted on "be independent" and "reinvent yourself regularly" and "make a million mistakes." That tension lives in me—a pastor who values stability and tradition while running a progressive church, the writer who craves both mastery and experimentation.

Sivers himself embodies this approach. Independent thinker, self-published, built his career outside traditional structures. I want to steal that playbook while also committing deeply to institutional church life. The contradictions don't resolve. They just reveal.

Rating: 6/7 (Good Plus, worth repeating)